I have a question concerning etiquette.

Is it OK for a friend to take a photo of you while you’re eating and to not even let you know?

My friend did this. I called her the next day to ask could she send me the photos she took (as I always share photos), but she didn’t send the one she took of me eating.

I asked her about that specific photo and she said she couldn’t find it.

What do you think?

– Upset

Dear Upset: No – it is not OK to take a photo of someone eating without their permission. In my opinion, it is not OK to take a photo of anyone doing anything – without their permission.

I think you should assume that your friend deleted this photo, and then you need to decide to move on with your life.