The Value of Libraries

A mother came to the library carrying her toddler and a grocery bag.

She asked if story time cost anything.

The librarian shook her head. “Everything here is free.”

They sat on the rug while volunteers read about kindness and courage.

When it ended, the mother said, “It’s the only place I can bring him that doesn’t ask for money.”

Many politicians call libraries wasteful spending.

Parents call it hope.Matt Lillywhite

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Protect plants with plastic forks

Finally, a great use for leftover picnic or takeout forks: If you’ve spotted stray cats, rabbits, mice, or other small critters around a favorite plant, stick a few forks in the ground, tines up. The sharp tines will deter most small animals and keep young plants out of harm’s way. 

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The Art of Deep Reading

Deep reading for me means the luxury of long stretches of uninterrupted time with my books and the freedom of circling and underlining and scribbling in the margins. It’s also the richness of reflection and privilege of focus to forge my own understandings and ideas. maya smart

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Notes from a Young Black Chef

Notes from a Young Black Chef by Kwame Onwuachi (2019,271 pages) I didn’t know who Kwame Onwuachi was before picking up this book. I found it while browsing one of my favorite bookstores and, honestly, chose it because the title and cover caught my attention. I expected a glimpse into a chef’s life and, more importantly, food from a Black perspective. I later learned that Onwuachi had been a contestant on Top Chef—a show I don’t watch because it feels like too much manufactured drama and not enough food—but that ends up being only a very small part of his story.

Onwuachi tells the story of his life from early childhood to the opening of his fine-dining restaurant in Washington, D.C., one of the city’s most talked-about and expensive restaurants—which then closed just three months later. He reflects on the major experiences that shaped him, the role food played throughout his life, and, above all, his drive and determination. Not every decision he made was a good one, but that is part of what makes the memoir feel honest. I especially enjoyed reading about his upbringing: being sent to Nigeria to “learn respect” and discovering more about his heritage and food culture, selling candy bars in the New York City subway to fund his first business, studying at the Culinary Institute of America, and working in kitchens across New York and the South. He also writes vividly about food. As he puts it, his ancestors were “steeped in the curries and jerk of Jamaica and founded in the stews and roux’s, gumbo and jambalaya of Louisiana.” (213)This book includes a few recipes, but it is much more than a cookbook. It is a memoir about heritage, the realities of the culinary world, and a Black perspective on food.

I would highly recommend this book to anyone interested in food, the life of a chef, or simply a compelling story of resilience.

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Never Put the Bag Down

And one last thing … don’t you dare put that bag down! “When you are walking into the house with a bag from a store, do not put the bag down. Always empty it and take the items to where they are supposed to go,” Paxton said. “If you put the bag down, you’ve already lost the decluttering battle.”

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