slow down

As winter invites us to slow down, this season gently calls us into turning inward—introspection, acknowledgement, and acceptance. In the quiet and stillness of these shorter days, we are offered space to rest, reflect, and nurture what is growing beneath the surface. It is a time for stillness—rest and relaxation, and for nurturing growth and change through self-compassion and grace.

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only what you need

Buying only what you need instead of what you want can be a hard rule to follow. It’s OK to indulge in what you desire now and then, but the key is to be intentional. If you are unsure whether to swipe that card or walk away, this Life Kit guide can help you make a mindful decision you won’t regret.

💳 Hold off on spending if you have to pull funds you set aside for basic needs. Don’t take money from your emergency fund or money saved for vacations. 
💳 When feeling spendy, use the acronym HALT to check in on yourself. Are you hungry, angry, lonely or tired? If so, there could be another way to fill your need. 
💳 Before buying, shop around for the best price and read reviews to make sure you’re getting the best bang for your buck.
💳 If you are buying the latest and greatest in an attempt to achieve status, consider why that item matters so much to your self-esteem.

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 Appreciate your body

 Appreciate your body for what it does for you rather than how it looks. It will shock no one when I say that we are an appearance-focused society. But trying to constantly control your appearance keeps you at war with your body. An important facet of positive body image is learning to appreciate our bodies for what they do for us. Not everyone has the same degree of body function or ability, but most of us can appreciate having hands that let us garden or pet our animal companions, senses that let us see a sunset or smell a rose, a heart and lungs that operate 24/7 without our conscious thought, and a body that gives our brains a home. – Carrie Dennett

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The Tuesday Club Murders

The Tuesday Club Murders (1928, 228 pages) by Agatha Christie. I have a confession: I know who Hercules Poirot is, but not Miss Jane Marple. This book changed that. I have to say, she reminded me a lot of Jessica Fletcher (Angela Lansbury). Miss Jane Marple is simply adorable, an old woman surprising everyone by solving all the mysteries and making them look like no-brainers with her wit, earning the respect of her peers. This was fun read! It is a book of short stories tied together by a group of friends that get together; the brilliant Scotland Yard detective, the honored old clergyman, the dazzling woman artist, the celebrated lawyer, the handsome young writer. All famous in their own ways, all haunted in their own ways, they start talking about mysteries with known endings that have happened to them, and they want to see if anyone in the group can guess the outcome. Each chapter is a new person telling their story for the group. While the final tale is quite different – Miss Marple goes to Sir Henry to ask him to investigate an apparent ‘suicide’ and find the real culprit, which she has already uncovered but has no evidence. I very much enjoyed this, although since each story was so short, it made it even harder to find the solutions but the “AHA” moments were worth trying.  Simply brilliant entertainment!

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Look at the “big picture” of health

When you’ve set goals to “get healthy,” have they tended to focus on making changes to your diet and exercising more? Health does not exclusively hinge on diet and exercise. Of course, eating a variety of nutritious foods and moving your body in ways that support strength, endurance, flexibility and balance contribute to health, but that’s only the tip of the iceberg. Are you keeping up on preventive health exams? Do you make time to nurture meaningful relationships? Do you get enough quality sleep? Do you tend to your mental health as well as your physical health?

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