Name your loss

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We cannot heal what we refuse to acknowledge. Yet many of us minimize our pain: “It’s not that bad,” we say to ourselves. “Other people have it worse.” In minimizing our pain, we deny ourselves the opportunity to process what we’ve lost.

To face these types of loss where we lose our communities, relationships or dreams, we must name our losses out loud so we can heal from them.
We have rituals for death, like funerals, that give grief a place to be processed. But we lack rituals for the many other losses we experience. Naming those losses — in conversation, in writing or in community — is where healing begins. Megan Shen

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Living Proof

Living Proof (286, 2015)  John Capecci and Timothy Cage,is an essential resource for anyone looking to master the art of personal storytelling across written, interview, and public speaking formats. Authors Cage and Capecci provide a guide that offers a clear and practical roadmap for moving audiences from apathy to empathy and, ultimately, to action.

I completed the book’s numerous exercises throughout this past spring and summer. The structure resembles a workbook, packed with constructive advice, checklists, and innovative frameworks such as “making the cut,” “key words,” and the “6-word reason”. One of the most helpful tools is the visual “story map”—which I recommend completing with high-quality colored pencils—to help document experiences and determine which details to share or omit for maximum impact.

What sets this book apart is its dual focus: it teaches you how to hone your message by asking thoughtful questions—such as “What is the goal of your storytelling?” and “What is the core narrative?”—while simultaneously coaching you on presentation skills, ranging from media dress codes to public speaking tips. By asking “Who is your audience?” and “What do you want your story to provoke?”, the book guides you through the entire process. Whether you are a mission-driven individual building an advocacy platform, a professor teaching communication, or someone simply looking to communicate more effectively,  and write your story. Living Proof is a must-read. It remains the most comprehensive guide I have found for transforming lived experience into a powerful tool for change.

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Mondays

Monday’s will always be my favorite day. As an entrepreneur, sometimes it can feel like I’m always falling behind. However, Mondays are always a fresh start that I’m grateful for in between the hustle. The energy of a new week is contagious and I always try to capture that and really be as productive as possible 💕 – Alitzah Stinson

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When an Angel Walked In

It was a bittersweet day. After having my new business broken into for the second time in just a few short months, it felt like another setback. Community leaders and the police major came out to my store to show support and encourage me to stay and build my business in the city.

Shortly after, I received the $2,077.36 bill for the glass replacement, and my heart sank. As I was about to offer my credit card for payment—choosing that bill instead of paying my rent—an angel walked into my shop and said, “I got it.”

I had resolved that I was done with the business, but when he paid the bill in full, I started crying and knew I had to keep going. I shared the amazing news on my social media account and respected the generous man’s wish to remain anonymous. His act of kindness made all the difference.

S. R., Tucker, GA

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The Power of Self-Belief

“Man often becomes what he believes himself to be. If I keep on saying to myself that I cannot do a certain thing, it is possible that I may end by really becoming incapable of doing it. On the contrary, if I have the belief that I can do it, I shall surely acquire the capacity to do it even if I may not have it at the beginning.” ― Mahatma Gandhi

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