Medicare vs. Medicare Advantage: Key Differences

In a recent letter from “Angry DIL”, the letter writer was complaining about the cost of keeping her 90-year-old mother-in-law in a senior facility. She wrote ” During this time, I found that the normally excellent Medicare she has yearly been advised to sign up for has changed. Some slick salesperson sold her another plan, and she was cut off from rehab care.”

This illustrates a common confusion between Medicare and Medicare Advantage plans. Medicare is a government program, and covers what it covers, for all participants, at any doctor or hospital or provider anywhere in the U.S. that accepts Medicare. There is only one Medicare.

Medicare Advantage is a program that takes the money that would have been spent on you by Medicare and gives it to a private insurance company that essentially gives you private insurance coverage, often HMO or PPO. These plans have different benefits and rates, and, like non-Medicare insurance plans, can require prior authorization or just flat-out deny you coverage. Medicare cannot.

The bottom line is that people need to be clear when they are on Medicare, a government run single-payer system, and when they have signed up for a Medicare Advantage plan, which is run by insurance companies.

– Plan Clarity

Dear Plan: This is a helpful distinction. One additional thought on this letter: the letter writer may want to speak to an elder law attorney or advocate about options available to her mother-in-law. As the original letter noted, the daughter-in-law and son are paying quite a lot of money for the mother’s care because the mother doesn’t have the funds. But there are other options available for getting her the care she needs with consideration for her financial position.

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Embrace Courage

You’ll never do a whole lot unless you are brave enough to try.”
― Dolly Parton

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Choosing Peace

If peace is really what you want, then you will choose peace. If peace mattered to you more than anything else and if you truly knew yourself to be spirit rather than a little me, you would remain nonreactive and absolutely alert when confronted with challenging people or situations. You would immediately accept the situation and thus become one with it rather than separate yourself from it. Then out of your alertness would come a response. Who you are (consciousness), not who you think you are (a small me), would be responding. It would be powerful and effective and would make no person or situation into an enemy.
― Eckhart Tolle

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emotional silence

In friendships, we make hints instead of asking for what we need, and when people fail to figure it out, we claim we lack social support and community.

In romantic relationships, we expect our partners to read between the lines, and when they fail that test, we make claims that they don’t care about us.

In professional settings, we struggle to name our boundaries or advocate for our needs. Then we create a story that the people we work with are difficult, when it’s really us being difficult by not speaking up.

There is a price that you pay when you choose emotional silence. You will feel lonely even when surrounded by people if no one knows what’s actually happening inside you. You will feel resentful if you keep giving from an empty cup, and never say, “I need help.” You will feel chronic agitation when you continuously perform at being okay, instead of saying, “I’m really hurt by something you did.” – Minaa

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Morning Stillness

build a few minutes of breathing or stillness into your morning before reaching for your phone or allowing the demands of the day to take over.

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