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We cannot heal what we refuse to acknowledge. Yet many of us minimize our pain: “It’s not that bad,” we say to ourselves. “Other people have it worse.” In minimizing our pain, we deny ourselves the opportunity to process what we’ve lost.
To face these types of loss where we lose our communities, relationships or dreams, we must name our losses out loud so we can heal from them.
We have rituals for death, like funerals, that give grief a place to be processed. But we lack rituals for the many other losses we experience. Naming those losses — in conversation, in writing or in community — is where healing begins. Megan Shen
Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real-life wisdom on to others as I embark on this new venture of “positively purging”, as I know each of these pieces represents something…




