Inner Peace

I wish you rest today. I wish you a deep knowing that exhaustion is not a normal way of living. You are enough. You can rest. You must resist anything that doesn’t centre your divinity as a human being. You are worthy of care.-Tricia Hersey

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Hatchet

Imagine you are thirteen years old, riding shotgun in a Cessna, and your pilot suddenly loses consciousness. What do you do?

I recently revisited Hatchet by Gary Paulsen (1987, 208 pages), a book that has stayed with me since childhood. It is a page-turning, heart-stopping adventure As a proponent of buying used books, I smiled when my copy arrived bearing a middle school barcode and pages filled with tabs and class notes. It served as a perfect reminder of the impact this story has on young readers.

Hatchet is a riveting tale of survival and transformation. The story follows thirteen-year-old Brian Robeson, who is stranded in the Canadian wilderness after a plane crash leaves him as the sole survivor. Equipped with nothing but a windbreaker and a hatchet, Brian must move past despair to learn essential survival skills. As he adapts to his environment, he also grapples with the emotional weight of his secret knowledge of his mother’s infidelity, while traveling by single-engine plane to visit his father for the first time since the divorce. When the plane crashes, killing the pilot, the sole survivor is Brian.

Reflecting on Brian’s journey as an adult, I find myself thinking about our responsibilities as parents. Life is unpredictable; while we cannot protect our children from every setback, we can equip them with the independence and resilience needed to navigate challenges. In an age where many children are engulfed in technology, I wonder how they would fare in the wilderness on their own.

This Newbery Honor-winning classic remains the standard for survival stories. I believe it would be an excellent book for parents and children to read together to spark conversations on self-sufficiency. After all, teaching a child to navigate their own “wilderness” is a gift that lasts a lifetime.

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Job Hunting with Faith

Job Hunt With Jesus

Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real life wisdom on to others as I embark on this new venture of “positively purging“, as I know each of these pieces represents something…

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Inward Compassion

The Practice: Turning Inward with CompassionThis practice can be done anywhere—at home, at work, in your car, or during a quiet pause in your day. It is simple, brief, and deeply nourishing.

Settle Yourself
Allow your body to relax as best it can. If you feel comfortable, close your eyes or relax them with gentle attention in your space.

Breathe
Place your hand over your heart. Take slow, deep breaths for two to three minutes. There is no special way to breathe—just notice the inhale and the exhale, allowing yourself to settle.

Ask Gently
When you feel ready, ask yourself softly:
“What are you feeling right now?” Gently scan your body and mind for sensations, emotions, or thoughts. Name them silently.

Listen Without Judgment
Let the answer come in its own time and watch it go by without needing to analyze, correct, or change. Simply listen. Do your best to be present with whatever comes up.

Affirm with Breath
Gently direct your breath towards any areas of tension or difficult feelings, imagining them softening. Silently offer phrases like, “I see you,” “I accept this,” or “It’s okay to feel this way”.

Optional Reflection
If it feels supportive, write down what you hear. Let the words flow without editing. If what you write feels harsh or unkind toward yourself or anyone else, you are invited to let it go—tear it up, etc., as an act of compassion

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best piece of style/decorating advice…

best piece of style/decorating advice… be yourself find what you love and do that. If you truly love something, it never goes out of style

best piece of style/decorating advice……. Buy what you love even if you don’t have a place for it at the time. I still think about a tapestry I saw at the portobello road flea market a few years ago that I should have snapped up.

best piece of style/decorating advice… focus on your own style, not what’s in style. —Rebecca Gardner

best piece of style/decorating advice…don’t cheap out on things you touch every day. — sean Anderson

best piece of style/decorating advice… don’t over think your choice. Pick a fabric, select a paint clor and move forward ! — Lynde Easterlin

best piece of style/decorating advice……edit ruthlessly. If it doesn’t serve the story it doesn’t belong. — Tavia Forbes

best piece of style/decorating advice…Don’t design all at once. —Mont Masters

best piece of style/decorating advice… be confidant in your choices. Go with your gut and what makes your tingle. — Ellen Kavanaugh

best piece of style/decorating advice… try not to get swept in trends. You’ll end up redecorating instead of enjoying the pace. Chose pieces you  truly love an your home develop layers over time. — Mackin Thompson

best piece of style/decorating advice… be okay with others not liking your style, your taste or selections. Nothing is more unattractive than seeking approval from those who don’t know you. Live your life and keep it moving. — Duval Reynolds

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