Even with the best intentions, someone might push. They might ask the question you said you wouldn’t answer. They might make the comment that crosses the line.

Here are some responses that hold your boundary without burning the house down:

“I appreciate your concern, but I’m not discussing that today.” “That’s personal, and I’m keeping it that way.” “I hear you, and I’ve got it handled.” “Let’s talk about something else.”

You can say these with warmth. You can say them with a smile. But you can also say them firmly. You don’t have to make yourself smaller to keep the peace. Real peace includes you being respected.

-BWHI