Initiate a do-over when you have a bad start, don’t just give up. Think about how to course correct in the moment. I had a client who planned and dressed up for a dream worthy date, only for Mr. Right to show up looking as if he dressed in a hurry at the gym. My client was ready to end the evening, but when her date said, “I didn’t know this was dress -up date. I’m really sorry” And then he spent the night going out of his way to make her feel special. By acknowledging the slipup, he was granted a second chance – and they made plans for a second date- Julie Wadley