As a caregiver to a loved one with a terminal illness, I wish to add two recommendations on how people should NOT respond to this news:
First, do not minimize the illness!
Second, do not intrude on others’ privacy (“I heard he’s sick, with what? What’s the prognosis, and how’s he handling it?”).
Dear From the Trenches: Caregiving at this level is a relentless process of learning while doing. Thank you for passing your wisdom along.
Real Life of an MSW 
One possibly reply: “I’m so sorry; can I do anything to help?”
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I love that suggestion. Unfortunately, many people will say no as they do not wish to be a burden. So, sending a gift card and a card often means a LOT. Thanks for reading and commenting!
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