Oooh. You have to Bone-Grow. Nobody is coming to hand you the missing pieces. If the friendships you crave don’t exist, you have to forge them. If the structure that would benefit you isn’t there, invent it. Same with the life that wasn’t modelled to you. Carve it, instead, out of what you were given. This doesn’t have to be a sad story. Ain’t that the work of a lifetime? Figuring out the blank spots and naming what else might be possible? 

For me, this has meant admitting that there are tools that I assumed would appear. They did not, and I was, at one time, sick about it. I was waiting for Prince Charming. Or I wanted a parent to save me. But everything I wished for existed in me. …

Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real life wisdom on to others as I embark on this new venture of “positively purging“, as I know each of these pieces represents something…