Tag Archives: friendships

Self Love

Don’t expect one person to meet all of your needs. Strong relationships are supported by friendships, interests and sources of meaning outside the partnership. Overreliance on a romantic partner for all of your emotional or social needs creates pressure no … Continue reading

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Who am I to judge

The basis of a close friendship begins with trust, but the most difficult part of that is not judging your closest friends. When I was in my 20s and 30s, I had only two close friends. When one of them … Continue reading

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life is not yer mother

Oooh. You have to Bone-Grow. Nobody is coming to hand you the missing pieces. If the friendships you crave don’t exist, you have to forge them. If the structure that would benefit you isn’t there, invent it. Same with the … Continue reading

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Time for reflection: Aging

Write about someone — a friend, a pet, a spouse or a relative — whom you have known through different stages of life. How have you both changed over time? In what ways are you still the same?   Positively … Continue reading

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Aging

What are some other superpowers of old age? What are you capable of now that you weren’t in your youth?   

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