Taking charge of planning and booking trips so I don’t have to.

Sending handwritten letters and postcards. I mail more than 100 each year. It’s how I let people know that wherever I am. I’m thinking of them — Rebecca Friedman

Winks! Whenever my husband and I are at a crowded event – like a wedding, family reunion, or holiday party- he will find me from across the room and give me a wink! No atter how many people are around us; it feels like it’s just me and him— Donna Vingo

Back scratches. When I was little my mom gave back scratches, and I’ve continued this tradition with my children. My mom is 75 and whenever she visits my teens still ask for back scratches from their grandma. — Sam Goldsmith

Holding hands and real hugs. Not just patting someone on the back—a genuine hug.

I love to read! So, if I’m reading and you sit beside me and let me read without disturbing me, it means you love me and just want to be close — Unae Ball

Simple: Empty the dishwasher. — Julie Lester