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Therapeutic Notes: Manipulative language

My career journal is filled with scraps of paper, my dreams, countless questions, and thoughts; all of which bring a flood of memories with one powerful statement, which is “I wish someone would have told me this.” So, I’ll be … Continue reading

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Red flag phrases in relationships

Blocking compassion by advice, interrogation, one-upping or correcting Examples:

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Green Flags

Blanket Statement One green flag was when he brought me my favorite coffee order—before I ever mentioned what it was—I thought, ‘Okay, this guy actually pays attention.’ He didn’t just listen; he remembered from our previous coffee outing. Nice green … Continue reading

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