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Evaluate your complaints.

In relationships, we often face recurring problems that don’t change—no matter how much we fight, advocate for our needs, or complain. When you find yourself complaining about the same issue repeatedly, it’s an opportunity to evaluate what you want and … Continue reading

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Key Questions to Consider

Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real life wisdom on to others as I embark on this new venture of “positively purging“, as I know each of these pieces represents something…

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Family Beyond Blood

A lot of people created life but didn’t agree to nurture it. Showed up for the performance, but not the process. And it’s painful, but also freeing, to admit that. What I’m learning is that soul bonds don’t always follow … Continue reading

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Pick the right time to talk.

Just because you’ve worked up the nerve to raise an issue doesn’t mean now is the best moment. Let your partner know you would like to work on something together and ask if this is a good time. If they … Continue reading

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Talk about their behavior, not character

Instead of saying, “You’re lazy, selfish, mean,” talk about how their behavior affects you. Say: “When you say you’ll be home by 7 and don’t show up till 8:30, and you don’t call to let me know, I feel hurt, resentful, … Continue reading

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