Tag Archives: dating

Can You Step Up Financially !

How do I tell my cheap girlfriend that she needs to pitch in? We’ve been dating for over a year. On the rare occasions she takes me out, I have to pay for at least part of it. She’s even … Continue reading

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Teens and Romantic Relationships and With Older Adults

Should a 37-year-old date a 17-year-old? When does the age gap become unbearable? When does the law truly step in? These are the questions that arose for me while reading this story “Adult-teen relationships aren’t judged in some communities” . … Continue reading

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Can You Pay My Bills

I’m struggling with how to address financial issues with my partner. When he first moved in with me, I was assured that it would be a partnership. He made no efforts to contribute to the monthly maintenance costs and only … Continue reading

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Couples & Money

We try to balance our savings so that she—as a mother and a Black femme—isn’t locked into our relationship by financial dependence.But as long as there is a pay disparity between us, there is going to have to be a … Continue reading

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