Tag Archives: communication
Talk about their behavior, not character
Instead of saying, “You’re lazy, selfish, mean,” talk about how their behavior affects you. Say: “When you say you’ll be home by 7 and don’t show up till 8:30, and you don’t call to let me know, I feel hurt, resentful, … Continue reading
changing for a partner
When is it okay to ask a partner to change a behavior to make you happy, and when does it cross a line? My partner and I are discussing this honestly and caringly because we have some differences in how … Continue reading
Revive Your Relationship: Communicate
Talk to your partner the way you did when you were dating. Many couples stop investing the time, attention and affection that once came naturally. Courtesy, curiosity and warmth shouldn’t disappear with familiarity. Catch your partner doing something right. People … Continue reading
The Strong Black Woman
The truth of the matter is we need help and we need support, which is why it’s imperative to have a strong circle. You’ll have hard days and you’ll need someone to talk to, someone to unload what you’re feeling. … Continue reading
The Power of Honest Conversations
I tell people how I really am. When the phone rings or I’m at the store and someone asks how I am, I no longer answer with a pat, “Great! And you?” I honestly tell them how I am—yes, really. Whether that’s … Continue reading
