Tag Archives: behavior
Bravely Challenge
You Can Bravely Challenge Their Behavior…Emotionally immature siblings often get away with poor behavior because no one calls it out. You don’t have to tolerate everything in silence. You can name what’s happening: “That’s rude,” “You’re making assumptions,” “I’m not … Continue reading
Talk about their behavior, not character
Instead of saying, “You’re lazy, selfish, mean,” talk about how their behavior affects you. Say: “When you say you’ll be home by 7 and don’t show up till 8:30, and you don’t call to let me know, I feel hurt, resentful, … Continue reading
Identity shifts
Listen to me clearly: Identity shifts are not a personal failing. When the roles that have anchored us change, it’s completely normal to feel untethered. Your breakdown can turn into a breakthrough opportunity to rediscover who you are beyond what … Continue reading
Adult Advice
“There is setting boundaries, and then there is avoidance behavior. Learn the difference because one is healthy and preserving while the other is not. Sometimes it can be hard to tell.” Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and … Continue reading
