I have always despised the question “What do you do for a living?” I am a firm believer one shouldn’t ever be defined by their job, no matter how hard you work to obtain the title (I worked hard for mine, just look at my career journal pages). My favorite question to ask is “What did you eat today?” This question can tell you a lot about a person and be a great ice breaker. Asking this question I have learned from clients which cafeterias, shelters, and churches offer the best lunches. Family, strangers and co-workers have shared restaurants and a host of recipes. This question also introduced me to my spouse, who rattled off things I only read about in Bon Appetite magazine. My spouse is a chef by trade- talk about winning a golden ticket. Like most people I had a laundry list of what I did and…