Best Gift: Give Someone Your Undivided Attention

Our phones do not deserve all the attention we give them; the people right in front of us do. People blossom under attention—especially children. Read a book with a little one. Spend one-on-one time with a teenager. Make it a date with a special someone in your life. Ask a person with half a dozen decades or more of life experience to share his or her story with you. People crave being seen and heard and made to feel relevant. Giving someone your attention is more valuable than anything you could wrap in a box and place under a tree.

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6 Responses to Best Gift: Give Someone Your Undivided Attention

  1. I remember one day my oldest son and I were out at dinner. He had to maybe be a freshman in high school. While we were dining he asked if I could put my phone away. I was shocked. But I do recall putting my phone away. And to this day, when he and I go out to eat together we both put our phones away unless we’re taking pictures! It’s really just good manners!

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  2. I was noticing one day, as my husband and I were having our morning coffee, that we were both looking at our phones, getting the morning news. It reminded me of the way my dad would eat his breakfast behind the newspaper when I was growing up, and I thought, “but now, at least I can see Marty’s face.” 😉
    Seriously, you make a great point, and when BOTH parties decide to put away the “devices,” some beautiful moments can happen.

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