car safety

DON’T slam the brakes if you have engine trouble on the highway. If your car stalls or runs out of gas on the road, put your hazard lights on right away and release the accelerator, Carias says. “Try to veer to the right shoulder of the freeway and come to a safe stop,” then call roadside assistance or 911. 

DON’T accelerate or slam the brakes if you’re skidding on ice. “Once you’ve already started sliding, you’re kind of going along for the ride,” Carias says. Cautiously turn your wheel in the direction you want the car to go, and straighten the wheel as you feel the car straighten out, according to AAA.

DO hop into the passenger seat while waiting for help in the right shoulder lane. It can be safer than sitting in the driver’s seat. You want to position yourself as far away from traffic as possible. And buckle up, Carias says.

DON’T turn on your high beams in heavy fog. “Fog is essentially water molecules. Shining bright light at those molecules is just going to reflect that light back to you and make it harder to see,” Carias says. Instead, turn on your headlights and fog lamps if you have them.

DO unbuckle your seatbelt and start to roll down the windows the moment your car falls into a body of water. “Don’t try to open the door,” Carias says. Once a vehicle is more fully submerged, the pressure from the water against the windows and doors can make it difficult to open them.

Escape through the open window and exit to safety. If you can’t roll down the window, “do your best to shatter the window using your elbow or whatever you can,” Carias says. For peace of mind, purchase a window punch to keep in your car.

DO keep emergency supplies in your car. That includes a first aid kit, water, jumper cables, a flashlight and blankets, Carias says. AAA also recommends keeping a basic set of tools and road flares or reflectors. 

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Communicate honestly

Instead of lashing out in anger, I’d write my spouse a letter explaining why I was hurt and put it on his desk,” recalled Valerie Wilson Wesley, a Manhattan author married for 51 years who penned a dating column when she was executive editor at Essence magazine. “Putting what was wrong into words allowed me to get what I was feeling straight. He’d usually take a few days to mull it over before he’d respond with his own letter, often starting with “I’m sorry,” explaining his side. Then we’d forgive each other.”

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wildcard condiment

We all know how to use ketchup. But what about tahini? Furikake? Chili crisp? Try a wildcard condiment

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Dating

There are no rules to dating. Don’t be afraid to strike up a conversation first and if you don’t know what to say, start by giving them a compliment. 

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Daily Possibilities

Every day is a new day where things you thought were not possible are happening.

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