Celebrate Possibilities

Let your mind take you to places you would like to go, and then think about it and plan it and celebrate the possibilities.”–  Liza Minelli 

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 Key Life Insights

This part: So, never mistake attention for acceptance, or applause for protection!

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Advice from a (Broken) Fortune Cookie

small steps can have a profound impact

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 Therapy Lessons: 12 Key Takeaways

Twelve things I’ve learned from both sides of the therapy room:

  1. Silence causes more harm than honest conversation. 
  2. Courage isn’t the absence of fear, it’s moving forward while fear walks beside you. 
  3. You only need one person to set and hold a boundary: yourself. 
  4. Therapy isn’t about fixing, it’s about understanding and being seen by a steady and caring presence. 
  5. When in doubt, slow down. 
  6. The only person who can change you is you, though support never hurts. 
  7. The things you avoid are usually the things you most need to face. 
  8. Healing follows your own pace, and your nervous system is often your best guide. 
  9. Recovery isn’t linear. It loops and curves and circles back. 
  10. Self-compassion matters. Most “mistakes” were once honest attempts to protect yourself. 
  11. The fact that growth is painful doesn’t mean anything is wrong. Pain is often part of the process.
  12. Vulnerability is the doorway to connection, but only when it’s offered to trustworthy hands.

The Therapist Who Came Undone

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Man Walks Into a Room

I recently finished reading “Man Walks Into a Room” by Nicole Kraus, (243 pages, 2002). I should have taken a hint from the title; while the initial plot caught my eye and the first few chapters were engaging, I ultimately found the book aimless.

The story follows Samson Greene, who develops a tumor that causes him to lose his memory of the ages between 12 and 35. Unfortunately, the plot moves glacially, feeling more like a disjointed set of descriptions than a cohesive narrative. Just as the author begins to address the profound issues of Samson reconnecting with his wife, career, and friends, the story takes a bizarre turn into the Mojave Desert. The introduction of a mad scientist transferring memories shifts what could have been a promising meditation on memory into a poorly executed sci-fi plot.

Furthermore, the characters lack depth, and the writing is extremely uneven, ranging from intelligent insights to unskilled prose. This is easily the worst book I have read in years. Although the basic premise was intriguing, the lack of structure made for a frustrating experience. This was a firm reminder of why I should stick to my 50-page rule, and I regret continuing until the end.

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