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Red flag phrases in relationships

Blocking compassion by advice, interrogation, one-upping or correcting Examples:

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Red flag phrases that humiliate in relationships

Phrases that humiliate your partner, name-calling, or speaking disparagingly — directly or to others in public Examples: “Don’t pay attention to him.” “Really, second helpings?” “Oh, he always does that.”

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Speak Up

Ask for what you want. Clearly. Boldly. Without apology. Love doesn’t read minds. Tell your partner, your friends, your family what would make you feel cared for. Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing … Continue reading

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Green Flags

Blanket Statement One green flag was when he brought me my favorite coffee order—before I ever mentioned what it was—I thought, ‘Okay, this guy actually pays attention.’ He didn’t just listen; he remembered from our previous coffee outing. Nice green … Continue reading

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Fearing to Intrude

Recently, I learned through the newspaper that the son of our contractor died, apparently by suicide. We know the contractor only through work. He has done several big renos on our house over the past 15 years and a few … Continue reading

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