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Red Flags:Moralistic statements

Moralistic statements thatMoralistic statements diagnose or label Examples:

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Therapeutic Notes: Manipulative language

My career journal is filled with scraps of paper, my dreams, countless questions, and thoughts; all of which bring a flood of memories with one powerful statement, which is “I wish someone would have told me this.” So, I’ll be … Continue reading

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Red flag phrases in relationships

Blocking compassion by advice, interrogation, one-upping or correcting Examples:

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Red flag phrases that humiliate in relationships

Phrases that humiliate your partner, name-calling, or speaking disparagingly — directly or to others in public Examples: “Don’t pay attention to him.” “Really, second helpings?” “Oh, he always does that.”

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Speak Up

Ask for what you want. Clearly. Boldly. Without apology. Love doesn’t read minds. Tell your partner, your friends, your family what would make you feel cared for. Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing … Continue reading

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