Tag Archives: realationship
Therapeutic Notes: Manipulative language
My career journal is filled with scraps of paper, my dreams, countless questions, and thoughts; all of which bring a flood of memories with one powerful statement, which is “I wish someone would have told me this.” So, I’ll be … Continue reading
Red flag phrases in relationships
Blocking compassion by advice, interrogation, one-upping or correcting Examples:
Red flag phrases that humiliate in relationships
Phrases that humiliate your partner, name-calling, or speaking disparagingly — directly or to others in public Examples: “Don’t pay attention to him.” “Really, second helpings?” “Oh, he always does that.”
Speak Up
Ask for what you want. Clearly. Boldly. Without apology. Love doesn’t read minds. Tell your partner, your friends, your family what would make you feel cared for. Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing … Continue reading
Green Flags
Blanket Statement One green flag was when he brought me my favorite coffee order—before I ever mentioned what it was—I thought, ‘Okay, this guy actually pays attention.’ He didn’t just listen; he remembered from our previous coffee outing. Nice green … Continue reading
Real Life of an MSW 