Flexibility is key. Write your resolutions in pencil and feel absolutely no shame in switching them up as life does what it does. You aren’t supposed to be the exact same person in 365 days as you are now, so it truly is OK if you don’t want the exact same things or if timelines change. It’s actually more than OK. It should be expected. Expect yourself to grow and plan on extending lots of grace to yourself. Grace allows you to make room for both the pain and joy that is simply a part of having a human experience.