Tag Archives: engagment

Tattoos

I look at husbands the same way I look at tattoos. I want one, but I can’t decide what I want, and I don’t want to be stuck with one I’m just going to grow to hate and have to … Continue reading

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Queen of Soul

The brother that gets me is going to get one hell of a fabulous woman- Aretha Franklin Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real life wisdom on to others as I embark … Continue reading

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Remnant of a marriage

So, by my thirties I had to accept that a “difficult” Black woman was either going to be single or going to settle for a remnant a piece of man; his body, perhaps or his wallet. But not his heart, … Continue reading

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The Contract

Marriage had certain commercial advantages. By it, the man secures exclusive right to the woman’s body, and by it, the woman binds the man support her during the rest of her life…a more disgraceful bargain was never struck. Dame Rebecca … Continue reading

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Marriage

Occasionally in my naïve youth, I thought it would be nice to be married so I could have regular sex without a lot of distraction and bother, but as time went on, it began to dawn on me that marriage … Continue reading

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