Without blaming your ex what should you have done differently in your last relationship?
Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real life wisdom on to others as I embark on this new venture of “positively purging“, as I know each of these pieces represents something…
Real Life of an MSW 
Examined more thoroughly, the alignment/misalignment of our values
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I wole heartedly agree with you. One thing that works for me is a quarterly (good) check-in, where we can speak openly, honestly in a safe neutral space without interruption. One thing I have learned is that we all continue to grow as individuals. The person you married 100 years ago is not going to be the same person 100 years later. So, yes, check-in and not only ask the hard question, but ask about goals, regrets, and life. Then truly listen to not just the answers, but watch the body language and listen for the pauses.
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Not went back to him. I wasn’t healed and I wasn’t even fully divorced but I was afraid to be alone and went back to a familiar face! Never go be with a man b/c you’re afraid of being lonely! What is lonely? Healing is so necessary! But if I’m honest with myself, I really enjoyed those three months! lol!
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I was glad to read that the, words allowed you a moment to pause, ponder and reflect. Thanks for reading and commenting!
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