Dear world, I love the holidays. It wasn’t always that way. When I was a teen, I dread them. I wished I could close my eyes and sleep from Thanksgiving straight through New Year’s and never wakeup. While all the other kids were hanging out together during winter break, I was in my room, praying the phone would ring. I was the one school out cast, bullied for the same reason may be some of you are feeling lonely this holiday season- simply for being different.
That was a long time ago. Many of those same classmates who bullied and excluded me are a part of my life now. I learned the ability to forgive is the greatest gift you can give yourself and others. I also learned that if there’s a painful memory you can’t erase instead of letting it consume you, turn your pain into purpose. Find a way to help others going through the same thing, and it will help you heal too. I did that by sharing my story in a memoir, and with every word I wrote, I felt the bitterness dissipate and my heart open.
The spirit of peace during the holidays must begin with all of us making peace with our own past, searching not for the reasons why we went through what we did, but how we can use those experiences to change the world- Peace Sade Blanco
Healing Process
This entry was posted in Reading and tagged better tomorrow, bitterness, bully, depression, emotions, faith, forgivness, healing process, holidays, insight, journaling, memories, mental health, out cast, Peace Sade Blanco, realationships, self love, teenagers, winter break. Bookmark the permalink.
Glad that you can now fully enjoy the fast-approaching holidays.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Those are not my words, but the wise words of Peace Sade Blanco. It is my hopes by sharing them individuals will learn “This to shall past in time…”
LikeLiked by 1 person
Well said
LikeLiked by 1 person
I agree Peace Sade Blanco, eloquently spoke of pain and forgiveness. Thanks for reading.
LikeLiked by 1 person