Tag Archives: gender

Parenting

Nothing you do for your children is wasted. They seem not to notice us, hovering, averting our eyes, and they seldom offer thanks, but what we do for them is never wasted. – Garrison Keillor Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks … Continue reading

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Boundless

The male ego knows no bounds and I want one desperately. – Margo Kaufman Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real life wisdom on to others as I embark on this new … Continue reading

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Struggle for Professional Identity

 I have been hired as a software-engineer team leader for a group, most of them older White men. I expect challenges to my authority because of my youth, race and gender. Can you recommend strategies to help me take charge … Continue reading

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Here for You

For some people, comforting strangers is all in a day work. I’ve been a bartender everywhere- neighborhood bars, cocktail bars, dive bars, a Korean karaoke place. Other than pouring drinks, the job is pretty much this: Predict people’s needs, then … Continue reading

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Emotional Unbalanced

Women are not really allowed to be fierce, we’re not allowed to be so active and men are not allowed to be tender and warm with themselves – Kristin Neff Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your … Continue reading

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