House Rules

If you were to hang a list of rules in your home, what would they be? My rule for myself is to make my home feel warm, comfortable, and inviting, where everyone feels completely at ease. This one for the guys: Please be careful with the floor—there’s always something happening on the floors. And let’s not touch the glass on the sliding doors when you open them. Try to find the metal part. If you could also wipe your feet when you come in, that would be great. There’s a mat there for you—don’t step over it. -Courteney cox

Positively Purging–I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real life wisdom on to others as I embark on this new venture of “positively purging”, as I know each of these pieces represents something…

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Be fearless with Failure

Be fearless with failure I always tell people not to be intimidated; just plant something. If you never plant anything nothing’s going to grow. You can start with a $3 packet of seeds When stakes are low it’s easier to shake off the inevitable flops with good humor.

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The Sisters of APF 

The Sisters of APF (2003, 284 pages) by Zane. Pulling this book off my pile, I had doubts. The last book by this author lacked the depth and character-building that I adore when reading. This book is another adult (erotic) novel. The protagonist, Maryann (“typical country bumpkin”), gets a full scholarship to attend law school in the big city of Washington DC. After several serendipitous encounters she ends up joining an underground organization where she can be sexually free. Once again, it’s important to note that the plot is straightforward. The focus is primarily on the sexual experiences of the characters, exploring their sexuality and indulging in wild, anonymous sexual encounters in a “sorority” titled APF, rather than complex character development or intricate storylines. While some may find the explicit content controversial, it’s undeniable that it challenges societal norms promoting autonomy and ensuring women’s well-being, while opening the door for a conversation about female sexuality. 

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Grounding With Texture


Find 3 objects around you with different textures (soft, rough, smooth). Close your eyes and explore each one with your hands for 3 minutes.

– Notice how each texture feels, allow yourself to breathe with the sensations.

This sensory practice is a gentle way to help regulate your nervous system and return to your body.

Small practices like this can create big shifts.

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Aging

What are some other superpowers of old age? What are you capable of now that you weren’t in your youth?   

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