Beautiful Library

Books that aren’t just display but part of your life are critical in making a library beautiful.

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family

It’s 100% ok to cut off contact with family. Blood isn’t thicker in some cases. Your family can hurt you and mess your life up the worst

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Slow down

Slow down you move too fast. You have got to make the morning last. – Simon & Garfunkel     

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 former caregivers 

 former caregivers who are struggling with what comes next. This is such an important and often overlooked stage of the caregiving journey.

Here are a few gentle suggestions for anyone in the post-caregiving chapter:

  • Give yourself time to rest. The physical and emotional demands of caregiving don’t fade overnight. It’s okay to take a break. Know that common emotions include guilt, anger, regret, and sadness.
  • Reconnect with yourself. Revisit interests and goals that took a back seat, a hobby, a trip, or simply quiet moments for yourself.
  • Stay connected. Local and online groups for former caregivers can offer friendship and understanding. Many caregivers find new purpose through volunteering and helping others on similar journeys.
  • Honor your loved one. Create a ritual; plant a tree, write letters, or organize photos to keep their memory close.
  • Seek support if needed. Counseling or grief groups can help you process emotions and rediscover purpose.

The next chapter of post-caregiving requires time, patience, and self-compassion. We are honored to remain part of your journey. – Connie Chow

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Trust Yourself

We are here to do good things. 

Trust yourself, and keep doing them.

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