customer service

I often need help with tech support. When I call I sometimes get a representative with a strong accent that I can’t understand.

What is a polite way to address this? I sometimes just thank them and hang up and call back hoping I will get someone that I understand. For the record, my hearing is perfect.

– Need Help

When you call a customer service or help line, you and the representative have the same goal – solving the problem, hopefully quickly. So, encountering communication issues – whether they’re due to a bad connection, trouble understanding one another, or anything else – keeps everyone from their goal.

It’s no one’s fault and so it’s fine to just put it out there by saying, “I’m sorry, I’m having trouble understanding you. Is there someone else I can speak with?” By phrasing it in this way, you keep the focus on the goal – clear communication – without casting judgment on the way the representative speaks.

 This is in response to “Need Help”, who encountered trouble understanding customer service reps. I worked in a call center, international department until my retirement. Because every phone call is constantly being graded and monitored by “quality control department” callers can get better results for themselves and for the representative by asking “can you repeat that, please?” – this is an alert phrase.

You can also say “because this call is being rated for your quality of service, I want you to know, you are doing well. But I need to speak to your supervisor to resolve this.”

What does this do? It releases the CSR from the call allowing them to be the best they can be. Customer Service Rep goals are to “Relay, relate, respond and release” as efficiently as possible with kindness for a good grade. – Former CSR

Dear Former CSR: I really appreciate this peek behind the curtain. After working in restaurants as a server and server trainer for a decade, I feel that I have similar insights when I encounter issues when out dining. It’s helpful to remember that everyone has the same goal in customer service situations – a successful interaction.

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Dinner Conversation:Recently Single

Being newly single during the holidays can feel like walking into a room where everyone’s watching. Don’t treat someone like they’re broken. Don’t try to set them up with your coworker’s cousin.

Skip: “Everything happens for a reason” or “You’re better off” or “At least you found out now.”

Try: “I’m here if you want to talk. And also if you just want to eat and laugh.” Or honestly, just treat them normally. Sometimes the greatest gift is not making someone’s relationship status the center of attention.

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Repetition Can Reshape Your Life

What’s one thing you’ve repeated that you’re tempted to call “pointless,” but might actually be planting seeds for growth?

How do you usually define progress—by what happens, or by how you show up?

Where are you learning to stay the course, even when it still feels uncertain?

Positively Purging–I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real life wisdom on to others as I embark on this new venture of “positively purging”, as I know each of these pieces represents something

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Dinner Conversation: Honoring LGBTQ+

If someone in your family is queer or trans, the holidays might already feel heavy for them. Here’s how to make sure they know they’re welcome:

Use the right names and pronouns. If you mess up, correct yourself quickly and move on.

Acknowledge their relationships with the same respect you give everyone else. Introduce partners by name. Make space for them in family photos. Treat their love as real, valid, and worth celebrating.

Don’t ask invasive questions. Questions about bodies, identity, or personal medical decisions are not appropriate dinner conversation.

Speak up when others don’t. If someone misgenders your family member or makes a disrespectful comment, say something. “Actually, they use they/them pronouns” or “That’s not how we talk about family” goes a long way.

BWHI

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Self Reflection

What do you need most right now in your life?
What is preventing you from getting that need met?
What might your next step be

Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real life wisdom on to others as I embark on this new venture of “positively purging“, as I know each of these pieces represents something…

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