Shine Through at Your Review

I’ve just been asked to write a draft of my performance review, to which my boss will add her thoughts. I’m having trouble because I don’t want to brag, but I don’t want to sell myself short either. –  Not a Bragger 

I have addressed this issue before- I recommend tracking of all your major projects and past reviews, as well as keeping a copy of your company metrics to refer to. What I have learned is at the end of the day no one will go to bat for you harder than you will. I also believe that when you quantify your accomplishments you are reminding your boss exactly why she was smart enough to hire you. Did you cut costs, meet a big goal, train a staff person? Flip through your calendar and you’ll probably be surprised by all you’ve achieved.

What counts in a performance review is identifying the top three goals your boss has for you- and showing how you’ve made progress. Do that and you’re golden. If you aren’t sure what those priorities are, schedule a pre-review chat with your boss. That way, you can customize your review- and address any surprising revelations. Going forward, make sure you get feedback regularly. Email your boss every few months to confirm that the top items on your to-do list match hers. As a rule, 80 percent of a performance review should focus on accomplishments and 20 percent on areas needing improvement. If you’re highly creative but disorganized, for example, deal with the issue head-on. Use take-charge language to explain that you’re continuing to improve your time-management skills and then list two or three ways you’re doing it. Get a second opinion. Ask a trusted colleague to help you spot forgotten successes and differentiate worries from weaknesses. Think big picture. Make sure your goals for the coming year include a career stepping-stone, such as managing a project instead of doing it all yourself.

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Mini Makeover: Art Edition

Make a kid artwork into a book. Snap  photos  of your child masterpieces and upload them to a site like chatbooks.com where you can organize them all into one book to save, display or share with loved ones.

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Know your Limits

There’s a notion in Kabbalah known as Tzimtzum, or construction. When God created the world, he limited his powers so we could have free will. You can take comfort in the limits of your powers, too. Like God, you do not control everything. What you can control is what you do and do not engage with. When you face tough situation you can’t change, you can grieve that there is nothing to be done – and then you can be done with it. There’s freedom in that that. – Rabbie Edwin Goldberg


Positively Purging–I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real life wisdom on to others as I embark on this new venture of “positively purging“, as I know each of these pieces represents something…

 

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The Mark

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Most Wanted

How rich do you feel? Stop and ask yourself that question. Do you have everything you need and want? Feel pretty good about things ? Comfortable enough? Now imagine earning $50,000 more a year. Think what you could own then? Still feel rich? Or are you  know feeling  less rosy about the situation that just a few seconds ago was fine. Now you know in theory, you could have more, what you have just isn’t enough. Feeling rich or poor is is often down to mindset. It comes down to the gap of what they have and what they want.

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