Tag Archives: attention

Houseguest

Ask before bringing a gift! I have everything I need. And I try to limit my consumption. To me, someone visiting is the gift. And yes ask before stripping the bed. I like being able to choose when to do … Continue reading

Posted in Reflections | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 3 Comments

Procrastinating

Pay attention to the amount of time you are procrastinating or dreading doing something. It might be the dishes, your taxes, starting a fitness program, etc. Notice the time it takes to actually do something about that particular thing. If … Continue reading

Posted in Reflections | Tagged , , , , , , , | 2 Comments

Calling in

Calling in” doesn’t mean you avoid calling out injustice when you see it, right? That’s right. I created a continuum—I call it “The 5 C Continuum.” There’s calling out, which is publicly shaming people. There’s canceling somebody, which is when you want … Continue reading

Posted in Reflections | Tagged , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Defining Our Lives

We think that’s it’s the big moments that define our lives— the wedding, the baby, the new house, the dream job, but really, these big moments of happiness are just punction marks of our personal sagas. The narrative is written … Continue reading

Posted in Reflections | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 2 Comments

Patience

As virtues go, patience is a quiet one. It’s often exhibited behind closed doors, not on a public stage: A father telling a third bedtime story to his son, a dancer waiting for her injury to heal. In public, it’s … Continue reading

Posted in Reflections | Tagged , , , , , , , , | 2 Comments