Reclaiming Our Power

Maybe you’ve experienced a heartbreak where someone was not honest with you. How can you begin to shape your thoughts and beliefs from self-blame from another’s actions to understand that how people act and respond in life has nothing to do with you? if you showed up honorably, how can you see the beauty in your integrity and affirm that it deserves to be met with equal integrity?

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Money Reflections

  • What was your first experience with money? Describe it in detail. Did you have any positive or negative feelings towards it?
  • What are some positive aspects of learning about money?
  • How do your parents interact with money?
  • How do your friends interact with money?

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Gordon Parks

Gordon Parks: No Excuses written by Ann Parr (2006, nonfiction, 32 pages). The book falls into the children’s book genre (in my home it falls into the coffee table book category). Parr’s book is a brief introduction into how Gord Parks became a well-known photographer, writer, poet, and musician. I wouldn’t recommend this book. One would be better off visiting the Gordon Parks Foundation to learn about his work and to view his photograph. Are you a Gordon Parks fan? Who is your favorite photographer? What draws you to their work?

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Credit freeze

With a freeze, the credit bureau can’t release any information in your file without your permission.

For it to be truly effective, you need to request a freeze at each of the three bureaus by following these links — Equifax, Experian and TransUnion.

Pros:

  • It is much more potent than putting a fraud alert on your credit report.
  • Placing and lifting the freeze is free.
  • It doesn’t take long to lift a freeze. A credit file can be unfrozen online or by phone within minutes, although you should allow up to an hour.
  • Freezing your credit does not affect your credit score.

Cons:

  • Instant credit offers may not be so quick. When you want to apply for a credit card or need someone to view your file for any other reason, you must unfreeze your credit report. Mailing takes longer. Agencies must lift the freeze within three business days after receiving a mailed request.
  • Companies can still access credit files. Financial companies you do business with — or which you owe money — can still view your files. Any federal, state or local agency, as well as law enforcement, trial court, or private collection agency with a court order, warrant or subpoena, would have access.
  • Your file can also be viewed by any person using the information in connection with getting insurance or a background screening for housing or employment.
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Clean Plate Club

Many parents and grandparents grew up in houses where the goal was to finish everything on their plate. But there are important reasons to end that practice. Training a child to clean their plate can lead to overeating and losing touch with the body’s natural cues that tell them when they’re hungry or full. Making a child finish everything on their plate can also cause power struggles and damage their sense of self control. Instead, the role of the caregiver is to offer a variety of healthy foods on a regular time schedule. Then allow your child to choose which items to eat and how much they ea

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