Real Life of an MSW

The Measure of a Man: A Spiritual Autobiography by Sidney Poiter. This novel is a philosophical reflection of his life, focusing on race, integrity, grit, and perseverance. Poitier wrote and published this autobiography at 73, the threads that ties it all together are his accomplishment and what makes for a life well lived. A recommendation on the jacket from the Washington Post says that reading this book is like having a conversation with a revered older relative; he doesn’t always tell you what you need to hear, but you appreciate it just the same. I agree. There are moments when Poiter’s insights on life and spiritual aspects are simply profound. I found myself highlighting a few quotes for future use. Poitier discusses the roles he was offered and refused because he did not feel the characters’ actions portrayed integrity. He discusses his feelings about being black and outsiders in America. He talks about his close friends, with whom he was often asked to sign a paper not to socialize with because of their progressive views.  Of course, he always refused. He speaks about how his value system, sense of self, and integrity formed at an early age in a life of simplicity and how this grounded him. He let his ideals and strength of character guide him, even if this meant refusing a role and going hungry. Ironically, this is when he opened a BBQ shop in Harlem (Talk about the good old heydays. Can you imagine picking up dinner and being served by Poiter?). He talks about the movies he was part of, the actors he becomes friendly with, his rise to fame, and the breaking of so many race barriers along the way. He speaks about his family and his relationships with his first and second wives and children. He is a gifted actor, writer, and speaker. To hear him reflect upon his life within which he overcame such adversity is inspirational. I would highly recommend this book as I felt like I spent some genuine time reconnecting with a great elder and my past.