Random Receipts

Always finding random receipts in your purse? It could be a sign that you’re spending too much.

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I say…

I am trying my best to live by the scriptures. Therefore, I say…

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Big Life Changes

“In September 2017, I suffered a stroke. Big life changes had to be made, and I decided to embrace those changes with diet, exercise, learning to control emotional outbursts (life battle) and new medication. Even so, there were many early days of the ‘poor me.’ I started upping my gratitude by making a list of what didn’t happen, instead of what did. Daily prayer and meditation in the morning. Prayer of gratitude before bed. I follow the heart association menu, exercise at least 30 minutes a day, black out my bedroom at night (which I call the ‘womb room’), am kind to others, find things and people that make me laugh out loud. Focus on living in today and not suffer from the tomorrows. And when I fall short, I try to be kind to myself and say ‘that’s okay’ and just keep on keeping on.” — Betty, 70

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Forever Interim

I joined a new company 18 months ago to lead a small team. Six months in, my director was fired, and I agreed to take on their role in addition to my own while they hired a replacement. Since then, they have hired and fired two additional directors, and a third was hired but never started. I have now been doing the interim role for a year and have once again been asked to continue in this capacity while they determine next steps. I applied for the director role but was told I don’t have the required experience. This has made it extremely challenging to do my job; in an interim role I don’t have formal authority to make key decisions or establish a long-term strategy, and I do not have a manager who can support me to do so. I am paid well and would like to stay at the company but am extremely frustrated by the stonewalling. Do you have any advice on how I can help bring this to some kind of resolution? — Anonymous, New York City

Serving in interim roles can be an incredibly thankless task. I understand your frustration. It’s strange to be asked to serve as interim director and then be told you don’t have enough experience to be promoted to a director position. I would meet with your manager and explain the challenges you’re dealing with. Ask if, while you’re in this interim role, which you’ve been doing for a significant amount of time, you can make the necessary decisions and strategic plans that will, ultimately, benefit the organization. I would also ask if you can, together, chart a path to promotion. If this doesn’t produce results, you have to decide if the benefits of your job outweigh the frustrations and proceed accordingly.

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Anonymous Employee

“I wonder if I could give my 2024 vision board to my manager since I’m trying to “manifest” a bigger paycheck”– Anonymous Employee

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