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Slow

How has embracing a slower pace changed your life for the better? Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real-life wisdom on to others as I embark on this new venture of “positively … Continue reading →

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nurture the things that do

I’m finding that the key to not responding to/engaging with things that don’t deserve your energy, is to more intentionally nurture the things that do. Like opening the blinds in the morning. Writing a poem. Going for a walk. A … Continue reading →

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over-explaining

Stop over-explaining as a survival strategy. The impulse to explain yourself repeatedly often stems from a desire to feel safe, to avoid judgment, abandonment, or misinterpretation. But over-explaining rarely gets you the clarity you desire. Instead, practice stating your truth … Continue reading →

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Question of the day

What is one rule you had growing up that looking back now, you think was totally unnecessary or even a little funny?  Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real-life wisdom on to … Continue reading →

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Free Drink ?

How do I respond to someone down the bar buying a drink for me, but I’m not interested? Bars shouldn’t let people buy drinks for strangers and shouldn’t facilitate this very outdated—and quite frankly predatory—practice. This might be extreme, but … Continue reading →

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