Tag Archives: boundaries
Houseguest
Ask before bringing a gift! I have everything I need. And I try to limit my consumption. To me, someone visiting is the gift. And yes ask before stripping the bed. I like being able to choose when to do … Continue reading
Goodbye
I’m not close to my 88-year-old mother. For all of my life we have not gotten along. I never fit into her “mold” for me. I have made the decision not to have any type of communication with her yet … Continue reading
Boundaries
Reflect on one moment this week where you said ‘yes’ when you wanted to say ‘no.’ How could you respond differently next time?” Your energy is sacred, and protecting it is an act of self-love. Boundaries allow you to show … Continue reading
Happy Mail
This is in response to “Loving But Frustrated Daughter,” whose 92-year-old mother lives in a secluded rural home in the Midwest, very distant from the daughter’s home in Southern California. The mother scolds the daughter when she needs to end … Continue reading
Guilt
Prioritize & set boundaries—even when guilt arises. You might feel guilty for saying no or pulling back, especially if you’re used to being the one who “handles everything.” Guilt is often a sign that you care deeply, but it doesn’t mean … Continue reading
Real Life of an MSW 