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Lending to Family or Friends?

DON’T lend money. Gift it DO create boundaries around whom you support DO offer other ways to help DON’T cosign a loan

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Manners

I may be hopelessly old-fashioned at 73 years old, but when my children were young and received a gift, I gave them notecards, stamps, addresses, and explained the ways a “thank you” could be worded. I encouraged them to include … Continue reading →

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Lending Money to Family or Friends?

Use the loan as a teaching moment Early in their marriage, my son and daughter-in-law had trouble making their paychecks stretch — and started asking my hubby and me for money. I said yes with a couple of strings attached. … Continue reading →

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Gate Keeper

At a certain point, I realized I am the gatekeeper to my own peace. I’m the gatekeeper to my own energy, and I can control the energy I bring to each day. Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments … Continue reading →

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Four Questions To Ask Before Lending Money

Am I really in a position to be giving money right now? If you have to pull from funds you’ve set aside for critical expenditures like rent, car payments and health care bills, you probably shouldn’t lend the money.  If … Continue reading →

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