Health Equity: Doctor’s Courage

I love the Op-Ed section of the paper. I believe we all need to write at least one letter on something we’re passionate about in our lifetime. In saying that, I applaud this reader

Re: “Former Seattle Children’s doctor wins $21M in discrimination lawsuit” (Dec. 23, Local News):

I am a graduate of the University of Washington School of Medicine, and I have received medical training and been in medical practice both in the Deep South and in the Pacific Northwest. I am a Black physician. The issues raised by Dr. Benjamin Danielson in the lawsuit against Seattle Children’s hospital are difficult and painfully familiar to my colleagues. I applaud his courage.

I, too, have worked in well-regarded hospitals where I’ve seen some Black patients receive excellent, compassionate care while others endure medical negligence and malpractice. I’ve seen Black women, as patients, nurses and as physicians suffer mistreatment by patients, professional colleagues and administrators of all backgrounds. Excellent, compassionate medical care and a hostile work environment are not necessarily mutually exclusive. We must encourage the former, and help our vital institutions deal with the latter.

My North Star as a physician has always been, “What is best for my patients?” The process of answering that question keeps me grounded and leads to healing for the patient, for the institution and for me.

John Vassall, MD, Seattle

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Memorial Drive: a Daughter’s Memoir

Memorial Drive: a Daughter’s Memoir (2020, nonfiction, 199 pages), by Natahsa Trethewey. I recall hearing about Trethewey on NPR “When Natasha Trethewey was 19, her world shattered after her former stepfather killed her mother.” I thought it would make a compelling page turner. I was disappointed. I stopped on page 88 as she wrote “it could go on and on and on, or someone must write the end of it”. I agreed with the author and made that my end. The author jumped around too much from one memory to another. There are countless examples of this: when her mother and biological father separated, and her mother moved and met her abusive husband. There was never any explanation about how the author’s mother met him and how she could’ve allowed such an abusive man into her life after having a previously good husband.  No apparent reason why her mother left family members, who could care for her daughter, and then moved to Atlanta. It was all just vague and confusing leaving me with too many questions, and not enough detailed answers. This book does deal with Domestic Violence, and I encourage anyone who finds themselves in such a situation to outreach to the National Domestic Violence Hotline.800.799.SAFE (7233)

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The Truth

Here’s the truth: vulnerability and softness are powerful forms of self-love. when we allow ourselves to be gentle, we create space for healing, growth, and true resilience. Letting vulnerability in. there’s strength in being open and soft, in allowing yourself to be seen for who you are. rest as resilience. honor your need to pause. rest is not an indulgence—it’s essential for your well-being. talking to yourself like a dear friend. practice self-compassion by speaking kindly to yourself, especially when your inner critic gets loud. celebrating imperfections. you are enough, exactly as you are. embrace the quirks and flaws that make you beautifully human. softness is not weakness; it’s your birthright and a source of your strength. as you navigate life’s challenges, treat yourself with the tenderness and compassion you deeply deserve. after all, healing comes when we allow ourselves to slow down and be kind to ourselves

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Style

And when it comes to fashion? With fashion, I think I sometimes fall into the minimalism categories, still—but I love falling into maximalism, too. For me, that means playing with more colors. It’s really easy to get stuck in a neutral and black cycle. It happens to everyone at some point. You’ve got to remind yourself to have fun. I also think there’s more freedom in being a Black woman in fashion. We get to play with so many colors that pop nicely on our skin tones. And it looks quite natural for us to do that. – Elba

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Invest in Your Growth

Keeping a healthy balance and state of physical, emotional, spiritual, and mental wellbeing takes an investment of time and also potentially outside support. We can hold ourselves accountable for our commitment, but we don’t have to go at it alone. There is no shame in hiring a therapist, coach, trainer, or taking a course or reading books to help along the journey if we know there are areas where we need additional guidance, knowledge, or support. Personal leadership is a lifelong journey and while there is a starting point, there is not an endpoint. Part of the beauty of this adventure called life is growth. The only constant is change. So we have the opportunity for continued growth and development as individuals over the course of our life if we are willing. If you think of some of the most innovative companies of our time, you can also look to their commitment to growth and expansion of possibility throughout your own journey. 

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