Proust Questionnaire

what is your idea of perfect happiness? Watching a great movie in the afternoon and then taking a long nap. What do you regard as the lowest depth of misery? War. But also a world without sugar. Where would you like to live? In a tree house just above the ocean, but with nice bougie sheets. What is your most treasured possession? My box of Christmas ornaments. What is your greatest fear? Naming my greatest fear, because then I’ll have to admit it, won’t I? How would you like to die? Consciously, filled with curiosity and awe. Hopefully in front of a big picture window. -Jodie Foster

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Mama

Charles Lilly’s stunning artwork graces the cover of Terry McMillian’s debut novel Mama (1987, fiction, 260 pages), reminding me you can’t judge a book by its cover. I am a McMillian fan and was thrilled to delve into her debut fictional work inspired by McMillan’s upbringing in Michigan. The novel tells the story of a Black woman (Mama) by the name of Mildred Peacock, a funny, broken, feisty heroine who raises five children alone after she divorces her alcoholic husband. She is a survivor who’ll do anything to keep her family together. In Mildred’s world, men come and go as quickly as her paychecks, but her five children are her dream, her hope, and her future.  In saying that, nothing “happens” in the book. I stopped reading at the start of chapter eight. As the main protagonist says, “I feel like I’m in a rerun…” I too felt that way because there is no central plot line. If I had to create one it might be something like “Impoverished Black family struggles through the effects of generational poverty and dysfunctional relationships.” Has anyone finished this book?  What were your thoughts? Have you read and enjoyed any of McMillian’s books?

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Hibernation

There is a simple beauty in the period of hibernation. It requires a more intense focus and I always look forward to it. – Leslie Miller   

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Testimony

If you were called to Washington, do you know what you would testify about? What you would say about how you feel toward our nation right now?

Our world is hurting, and we each hold a piece of the cure — a sacred truth that wants to be expressed. Yet we keep quiet, we hold back, we look for permission.How do you discover the truth that is yours to speak?  Lean into the flow of self-expression? 

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Limitless Possibilities Await

Stop obsessing about outdoing your last big project. Volunteering in your community will help you focus on changing the lives around you. Contact your local political officials and see if any opportunities relate to your future goals. Limitless possibilities await, but only if you undertake actions with a pure heart.

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