Goverment

What do you recommended as the fist steps for people wanting to be more active in local government.? The best first step is just show up. In most places, simply showing up (with a few friends) is enough to have a real voice at public meetings or other forums. And if you organize those friends, write letters, speak up during public comment sessions and circulate petitions, you can begin to complete the people with power to notice you and listen.

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Teaching: Cell Phones at School

It’s incredible how big of a problem cell phone usage is at school. About a third of the kiddos in most classes at the two Seattle area high schools where I teach have just checked out and use them as a pacifier. The teachers don’t enforce them being put away consistently. The kiddos might put the phones down when asked, but they are on them moments later. As a substitute teacher, I get open defiance if I insist they be put away. It’s a losing battle.

It’s a top-down problem that needs to be addressed. Somehow my generation made it through without them. More dialogue needs to happen about how to effectively use them so young brains don’t waste their educational time. And grow up checked out in life.

Lorinda Hines, Seattle

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Education

It’s one thing to know a lot; it’s another thing to have the access that allows you to put that knowledge to good use. Having connections with people who have walked the path you’re trying to walk – to learn from their mistakes and wisdom- really changes the game…Ask questions. It’s the only way to learn. I continually dare myself to face my own ignorance and not fear coming off as unintelligent. I encouraged them as they enter college and their adult lives to never stop learning. – Lupita Nyong’o

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HELP

I’m going through some tough times. I’ve always been strong and independent, and I think I’ve also been a good friend.

I know my old friends care about me, but I need more right now, but I don’t know how to ask for it.

Do you have any suggestions?

– Feeling Down

Dear Feeling Down: I’m publishing your question as a tribute to a friend of mine (we go way back), who recently reached out via group text with an update, followed by a statement saying that she could really use the support of her friends right now.

She immediately received it.

When I spoke with her, I thanked her for giving us the opportunity to pull together. I told her that her transparent “ask” was honoring our very long friendship.

She said that her (very wise) daughter reminded her that asking for help is giving people who care about her an opportunity to be of service.

To anyone out there who is hurting, please understand that asking for help is not only an act of bravery, but it is also an act that honors your relationships.

To anyone out there who is hurting, please understand that asking for help is not only an act of bravery, but it is also an act that honors your relationships, by giving people who care about you a pathway to be helpful, and an opportunity to express their love and compassion.

I hope you can make this “ask.”

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Black Enough

If I’m not really Black, could someone please tell my hair and my ass?” – Rainbow Johnson

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