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Check your Circle

Check your circle. “Take stock of who’s on your team adding value and who’s subtracting and contributing to division,” says Rhonda Mattox, M.D., a psychiatrist in Little Rock, Arkansas. “Pay close attention to how you feel when you’re with people. Ask … Continue reading

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Tap Your Family and Friends

Brace yourself—this next task may make you feel vulnerable because it explores whether how you see yourself is similar to how other people see you. Write down the five words that you think best describe you. Then ask ten of … Continue reading

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Helping Hand

Dear God, help me hold space for those around me. There are a lot of feelings at this time of year, and the greatest gift I could offer is to help someone feel seen and heard. Amen. Positively Purging-I welcome … Continue reading

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Sharing a Roof, and Money, With Adult Kids

Once you’ve decided to welcome an adult child home, then it’s time to set ground rules, says Julie Lythcott-Haims, author of “Your Turn: How to Be an Adult.” Start with a candid conversation about what each party expects. “Get clear … Continue reading

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“Grandmothers Raising Grandchildren

I love the op-ed section of the paper. I believe we all need to write at least one letter on something we’re passionate about in our lifetime. In saying that, I applaud this reader Re: “Grandmothers raising grandchildren should be … Continue reading

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