Category Archives: Reflections

Jimi Hendrix and Bluejeans

When my Indian father immigrated to the United States in 1976, his first dream was to own a pair of bluejeans. Ever since watching Michael Wadleigh’s 1970 documentary, “Woodstock” in a Mumbai movie house, my father adored denim and Jimi … Continue reading →

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Major Signs of Menopause Brain Fog

major signs of menopause brain fog: Lack of Focus: Zoning out? You guessed it, estrogen may be to blame! It’s essential for keeping our neural connections in check, helping our brain cells chat, and supporting cognitive superpowers like attention and … Continue reading →

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Is it Bad-Mouthing to Discuss Ex’s Poor Mental Health?

I have been divorced for five-plus years, co-parenting three kids in a very small town. It has been okay for the most part after a very acrimonious start. Two of the children are now off in college; one is still … Continue reading →

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Set Financial Boundaries

Saying “no” might not be easy, but setting financial boundaries with your friends and family is important. Whether it’s a bestie’s bachelorette party or a sister’s loan request, be honest about what you can and can’t afford. Yes, you *can* decline an invitation to … Continue reading →

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Financial Independence

Women are establishing financial independence or equity in their relationships… I have decided to NOT combine finances with my partner in order to have my own financial independence. With this independence, I feel a lot more in control of my … Continue reading →

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