Family Dinner

Every holiday, we have a large family dinner of 25 to 30 people. Mostly everyone brings a dish.

When we clear the table, a few of the guests try to beat everyone else into the kitchen and pack up a lot of the leftovers to take home. They don’t even leave any for the hosts!

I think this is incredibly rude and would like to say something to them, but the hosts, even though they are annoyed with this, don’t want anything said because they don’t want hard feelings.

What is the best way to handle this? They have been included in the holiday dinners for more than 20 years, so it would be very awkward to disinvite them.

— Anonymous

Anonymous: It does sound rude, yes.

We’re talking about leftovers, though — so the rudeness is costing you, what, a couple of warmed-over lunches? And the hosts don’t want you to say anything because wanting people to feel welcome is their higher priority.

Posted in Kitchen Adventures | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , | 4 Comments

Red Flags for Renters 

An old or new home is not necessarily a bad thing. However, buildings constructed decades ago might have unique issues. It’s wise to ask when the unit was built or last renovated, when the appliances and any carpet were installed and when the walls were last painted. Peeling or cracked paint could be a concern if the paint contains lead, as it often does in older homes. This is especially worrisome if you have young children.

At the same time, a fresh paint job is also worth inquiring about, Gregg says, because it could be concealing a problem. “As a home inspector, that always puts what I call our ‘spidey senses’ tingling,” he says. “You just want to ask a few questions of the landlords as to why it was done.”

The other challenge of renting a brand new or newly renovated space is that you’ll be the first tenant to discover any defects. This was the case in one of my past apartments. Because no one had lived in it before, we were the lucky ones who got to discover that the heat was insufficient come winter.

Posted in DIY💭 | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , | 5 Comments

Education Appreciates Over Time

They took everything we had, but they couldn’t take my education.

Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real-life wisdom on to others as I embark on this new venture of “positively purging”, as I know each of these pieces represents something…

Posted in Reflections | Tagged , , , , , , , | 4 Comments

Embrace It

Don’t waste energy thinking about an old version of yourself! Don’t get hung up on size – buy what feels the most comfortable. Be open to trying different styles and silhouettes.

Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real-life wisdom on to others as I embark on this new venture of “positively purging”, as I know each of these pieces represents something…

Posted in Reflections | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Fixed Mindset

With a “fixed mindset,” you think that your abilities, smarts, and personality are set in stone. On the other hand, a “growth mindset” means you believe that your abilities and smarts can change and expand.

Image result for mindfulness

Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real-life wisdom on to others as I embark on this new venture of “positively purging”, as I know each of these pieces represents something…

Posted in Reflections | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 2 Comments