Peace of Mind When Using an in Home Caregiver

1. Keep background checks up to date

Verify their Social Security number to see if they’ve used any other names. If they drive your older adult around, check their driving record too.

If you hired through a home care agency, find out how often the agency refreshes background checks and which databases they check against to make sure their checks are comprehensive.

2. Be alert for signs of trouble

Some examples of red flags:

  • The caregiver ignores your instructions and does things when and how they choose.
  • You can’t reach the caregiver when they’re with your older adult.
  • The caregiver is obviously focused on their phone, TV, or computer.
  • Your older adult’s personal hygiene is being neglected.
  • Your older adult shows unexplainable signs of physical or mental trauma, like bruising, sudden change of behavior (fear, agitation), etc.
  • The caregiver doesn’t seem to care about household safety.
  • You see multiple negative reviews of the caregiver on reputable websites.

3. Use video cameras for monitoring
Monitoring with video cameras is often used to discourage abuse. The point isn’t to catch someone in the act, but to prevent it from happening in the first place.

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Independent Film

With your smartphone, shoot a one-minute move of someone you know making a coffee or tea. Edit together a few different shots (simple to use editing apps like Splice and InShot make this easier than it sounds, even if you feel tech challenged) And try to use assorted styles of shooting, such as zooming, tilting, and panning. The film should be silent, not narrated. Watch your results, then sketch out a rough storyboard, record again and edit. When you’re satisfied, upload your video and have friends or family watch …. Ideally this process flings you into the learning process, and help you reframe the way you see yourself – “not as an expert more as a beginner, but as someone who can respond quickly to new information…and that is empowering. 

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The Moment

Are you facing a moment, or the moment?

 I started to think not about the opportunity in front of me, but about what I wanted the outcome of that opportunity to be. A job is not just a job; it’s a set of experiences and learnings. A project is not just a project; it’s an accomplishment that sets you up for future projects. The more we understand what we want from these things, and how they play a role in our larger vision of ourselves, the better we can decide if they’re something we need now, later, or never.

Sometimes in life, we really do only get one shot. But most of the time, we get many shots. We can do something now, or we can do it later. Or maybe we never do it at all — it’s just one of many opportunities that we turn down, because we cannot do everything, and that’s OK. –Jason Feifer

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Beautiful Stacks

There are some books you’ll re-read time and time again, and some books you’ll only reference occasionally. And while you’ll want to keep the former easily accessible, you can bear to get a little more creative with the latter. One easy way to do this? Find a few that look good together, stack them on top of each other, and slide them under a plant, vase, or some other decorative object. They’ll complement your décor without hogging space on your beloved bookshelves.

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Plants

I like to surround spaces in foliage allowing plants to spill over and soften the edges.

Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real life wisdom on to others as I embark on this new venture of “positively purging“, as I know each of these pieces represents something…

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