Come Sit a Spell

When I was a kid, our family made a monthly excursion from Ohio to West Virginia to visit my maternal grandparents. Every time we arrived at the door of their farmhouse, Grandma Lester would greet us with the words, “Come on in and sit a spell.” It was her way of telling us to make ourselves comfortable, stay a while, and share in some “catching-up” conversation. On the front porch of my grandmother’s house were several chairs—a warm invitation to all visitors to relax and talk – Dave Branon

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Dear Lord, as I look around at those who share this life with me, help me to make time to spend with them—for encouragement, challenge, and perhaps just plain conversation. The best gift you can give to others may be your time.

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Writing Epiphany

Goals set goals by scene or passage, not by words. Daily goal settings is a time honored staple of “writing advice” sit in the chair and don’t get up until you’ve written 1,000 words or until you have two or five or 10 pages neatly tacked on your desk. -But for me, and I bet for you too, its much more effective to think in terms of scenes of your novel or memoir or screenplay, or passage of an essay article -Writing one complete scene each day -and by scene, I mean a dramatic unit with an inciting incident, rising conflict, a climax and ending that includes a new question or kicker into the next scene – is an excellent goal if you have an entire morning or afternoon to devote to your fiction. If you get to write only before the rest of the house wakes up or when the baby takes a nap, you might aim to complete a scene or two every week. The typical scene unfolds over four to eight pages, so you build up pages at the same rate..- Failure I can live with. Not trying is what I can’t handle! – Sanya Richards-Ross

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Mini Makeover: Art Edition

Use black and white. If you are looking for modern and minimal look, consider black-and-white art. Photography is especially impactful in black and white.

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Getting to No

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Learning to Say No. I came up with six questions that I hoped would help me reclaim my life. I call them The Big Six, and I offer them here for one simple reason: They work. Next time someone asks you a question that requires a yes or no answer, ask yourself the following:

1. What am I being asked to do?

2. Who is making the request?

3. Who will benefit from this activity?

4. What do I want to do?

5. What will happen if I say no?

6. What will happen if I say yes?

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Life Moments

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