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Mental illness

As a mentally ill person, I say: Your mental illness is not your fault, but it is your responsibility to manage. Your mental illnesses can cause you to make mistakes and treat others poorly, and you certainly deserve some grace … Continue reading

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Grief

As a caregiver to a loved one with a terminal illness, I wish to add two recommendations on how people should NOT respond to this news: First, do not minimize the illness! Second, do not intrude on others’ privacy (“I … Continue reading

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According to a therapist: Getting Started

One common misconception is that therapy is only necessary after tragic events: a soldier returning from war or a person on the verge of suicide. Therapy doesn’t have to wait for a “big enough” crisis. Experts say it can help … Continue reading

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Boundaries

I am a recently divorced woman. I started a new job about six months ago. I am in middle management and enjoy the work very much. One of my (male) colleagues has asked me around three times what my marital … Continue reading

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Moves

Changing your position isn’t a weakness. As long as it’s coherent with your principle. Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real life wisdom on to others as I embark on this new venture … Continue reading

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