Tag Archives: boundaries

Wisdom

Ultimately, wisdom is needed to determine how, when, and where to draw boundaries, ask for what we need, improve our relationship interactions or perhaps even to end unhealthy partnerships. But wisdom can’t emerge without the inner strength, warmth, and stability … Continue reading

Posted in Reflections | Tagged , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Enough

I have a person I would consider my best friend, almost a sister. However, I’m noticing over the last few years that I am the person she complains to — understandable, she has a terrible husband and job — which … Continue reading

Posted in Reflections | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , | 2 Comments

Friends

I’m so fortunate to have two very dear friends, though they are not friends with each other. Lately, both have had a lot of discord but inevitably stay in the status quo while making increasingly questionable choices. I have hit … Continue reading

Posted in Reading | Tagged , , , , , , , , , | 2 Comments

Family Boundaries

 My son revealed to me that years ago, an older male family member propositioned him to have sex. This apparently took place at a holiday dinner where some heavy drinking had occurred (which was not unusual), and after his father … Continue reading

Posted in Clinical Supervision, Reading | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , | 4 Comments

Off-Duty Veterinarian

The subject of the off-duty veterinarian left me particularly unnerved and disappointed. I was raised as a preacher’s son. My parents instilled in me and my three brothers a desire to serve others regardless of the task. They lived a life of … Continue reading

Posted in Clinical Supervision, Reading | Tagged , , , , , , , | Leave a comment