Tag Archives: joy

Always Swinging Open

I see my Abuelita’s screened door swinging in my mind’s eye: sunlight piercing through the mosquito net, the scent of warm tortillas in the air. Even at 4, I know that Abuelita is not rich, not like my other, Italian … Continue reading

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Advice from a Horoscope

Surprisingly, romance has been the last thing on your mind lately. You have gravitated toward activities that made you happy as a child. Binge-watching old cartoons and movies with your closest friends has brought some of the most enjoyable times … Continue reading

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Money Talk

Approach your partner with empathy and ask: “What is your hope for spending this money?” Or “What is your fear around cutting this item?” when communicating around differences, any requests should be specific. So rather than saying, “We need to save … Continue reading

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Word of the Day

Microjoys are about holding joy in one hand, and grief in the other. It sounds like positive thinking is useful when you have energy to give, But microjoys are a kind of survival kit for terrible times, because they ask … Continue reading

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Dance & Play

Dance. If exercise is not your thing, simply put on some music and dance. It will reduce stress and release the “happy” hormone serotonin. Play. A sure way to get unstuck is play. Choose a partner and activity you enjoy such as frisbee, ping-pong … Continue reading

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