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Curb appeal

Curb appeal is like a first date. When you see a house for the first time in person, you’re sizing it up. Is it attractive? Does it feel safe? Are you comfortable there? Can you see it fitting into your … Continue reading →

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Love

Love that flourishes isn’t seasonal. It requires a rhythm of care and attention that flows throughout your daily life.  Micro-moments can look like: Sending a thoughtful text during a busy workday. Bringing your partner coffee just the way they like … Continue reading →

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Love after Love

The time will come when, with elation,you will greet yourself arriving at your own door, in your own mirror and each will smile at the other’s welcome,and say, sit here. Eat.You will love again the stranger who was your self. … Continue reading →

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The Juggle

Think about what you want your life to be like when you’re done caregiving, suggests O’Donnell. When her parents were both diagnosed with terminal illnesses on the same day, she initially felt obligated to give her entire life over to … Continue reading →

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Navigating Aging

Instead of arguing with an older adult who says, “I don’t want any assistance,” try to follow up by asking “Tell me more. What are you concerned about?” They may reveal there are circumstances at home — perhaps hoarding, perhaps … Continue reading →

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