Category Archives: Reflections

Keep up with your dishes

One of my clients had the epiphany that her struggle to cook interesting food was caused by the fact she wasn’t emptying her dishwasher. When clean dishes languished in the dishwasher, dirty dishes piled up in the sink, so often … Continue reading →

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Kindness

God show me how I can serve a friend or neighbor today, May I enjoy the freedom that comes by loving others as love myself. Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real-life … Continue reading →

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Culture Styles

Style has a profound meaning to black Americans. If we can’t drive, we will invent walks and the world will envy the dexterity of our feet. If we can’t have a ham, we will boil chitterlings; if we are given … Continue reading →

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The Road to Deeper Knowing

After my father’s near-death because of coronavirus, the road trip we had been putting off felt urgent. On Highway 101, I pressed firmly on the gas, hoping to outpace his mortality. My father’s gravelly voice hummed to the playlist I’d … Continue reading →

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Money Habits

1. Automate your savings. If you’re not saving consistently, make it automatic by adjusting your direct deposit or scheduling recurring transfers from your checking to your savings account. 2. Increase your savings by 1 percent. Already saving? Why not increase your short-term savings or retirement contributions … Continue reading →

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