Tag Archives: obligation

Guilt

Prioritize & set boundaries—even when guilt arises. You might feel guilty for saying no or pulling back, especially if you’re used to being the one who “handles everything.” Guilt is often a sign that you care deeply, but it doesn’t mean … Continue reading

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Euphemism

Euphemism for sex ? I don’t have one. Sex Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and your likes and passing the real life wisdom on to others as I embark on this new venture of “positively purging“, as … Continue reading

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Not Having Mindful Sex

Stop engaging in sex for external reasons like you feel obligated, lonely, or because everyone else is doing it. Actively sit down and plan out your sexual values, wants, and desires and make sure when you have sex, it’s because … Continue reading

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Inspire yourself

“My father and his family came from Cuba with nothing and fashioned a new life with freedom, hard work, and perseverance. I understand deeply that my life, and the privileges it comes with, exist because they were hard fought for. … Continue reading

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Mediative Moments

Last year, I kept a pressed flower scrap book, which gave me joy, mediative moments, and a sense of discovery. But after a while, ritual into obligation. I’d stare at beautiful flowers and think “should” You can feel your body … Continue reading

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