Love after Love

The time will come when, with elation,you will greet yourself arriving at your own door, in your own mirror and each will smile at the other’s welcome,and say, sit here. Eat.You will love again the stranger who was your self. Give wine. Give bread, Give back your heart to itself, to the stranger who has loved youall your life, whom you ignoredfor another, who knows you by heart. Take down the love letters from the bookshelf the photographs, the desperate notes,peel your own image from the mirror. Sit. Feast on your life. -Derek Walcott

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Aging

You know how you don’t get wrinkles? You die young— Paulina Porizkova.

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A simple sign you’ve found ‘the one’ 

“You want someone who celebrates your successes with you. So if something great happens and your partner is like, ‘let me treat you to dinner,’ that’s a great sign. You just want someone who makes a big deal out of things that are important to you.”Mandy Len Catron

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Defining Fear

Let’s start with the daunting part: fear. What if we’re eager to find ourselves on the page but afraid? What do you say?

What has helped me overcome this is realizing that fear of the page is usually discomfort with sitting with the self—because that’s where you’re laid bare. That’s where you have to listen and hear yourself. So sometimes, when I’m sitting down, I recognize that it’s not so much writing that I fear; it’s that I’m going inward. And it’s very normal to have some resistance to that at first. It’s very human. That’s why meditation is hard. That’s why yoga is hard. That’s why any kind of practice of meaningful self-inquiry is hard. So I tell people: Accept that a little resistance is human. It doesn’t mean that you’re not meant to write, or that you’re not a real writer. Creativity is a human birthright. – Joy Sullivan 

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Vulnerability

If you’re giving a speech be vulnerable. Fall on the audience and let them catch you. They will.

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