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Worried Parent

You often mention the need to exercise “compassionate detachment,” especially with adult children. I need advice on how to make that shift. There is a saying that being a parent is like having your heart wander around the world without … Continue reading

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A Little Bit of Everything

I’m sorry I’m stupid,” my father mumbles. When he struggles to find a word or finish a sentence because of his dementia, he hides his embarrassment and frustration by making this heart-wrenching statement. “Dad, you are not stupid,” I automatically … Continue reading

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Parenting Advice

Don’t spoil them. I don’t buy them all the things they ask for. Haley’s earning money to buy a dollhouse with chores. So far, she’s got $7. I instill it in my kids everyday: Work Matters. Know when you use … Continue reading

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Best Advice I Ever Got…

My mum and dad taught me to follow my intuition. I’m a  big believer in listening to goose bumps – when you feel them coming on, you know you’re onto something… Positively Purging-I welcome your feedbacks in the comments and … Continue reading

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BIG Emotions

A lot of times we swallow our anger and disappointment. Because we’ve been taught they’re “bad” emotions and aren’t socially acceptable. But the truth is, all emotions are valid and valuable. The trick isn’t in avoiding them but rather in … Continue reading

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